Showing posts with label Family photoblog. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family photoblog. Show all posts

Monday, November 29, 2010

Visiting in florida-too cold for the pool jan 10

We had a good time on our long weekend down in Florida with some dear friends, but damn-the weather followed us from New Jersey! I think they broke the record for coldest temps in Palm Beach County, so it was too cold for the pool. Even the dogs weren't going in





The dog's eye view



Reflections









Waiting to go for a walk








Gotcha!!! the dogs are so cute here! They love him to death :)




One of many artsy fartsy type shots of the fire and assorted reflections etc inside the house. This is the only one that made the cut for some reason.




Thanks for stopping by and have a good night.

More photos to come this weekend.

New's Year blog Jan 10

Don't have much to say, but I have a couple pictures.
Beth and I at the Continental on New Year's Eve (there's a goofy one of all three of us on the blackberry-have to get that)










And the portrait ceiling! I had something to do on Walnut St today, so of course I walked by the Anthropologie store aka Van Rensslear mansion and took a couple shots. the portrait ceiling from the outside! I love the b and w but you really need the color to see the portraits. i scoured the internet for info on it/them, but found nothing. Another one of life's mysteries I suppose. maybe it's an old Dutch custom...







Thanks for coming by and stay warm!

Our favorite dogs jan 10

A short one tonight.

One more day before we're off for a long weekend. Lots of plans but of course it's all about the people, and the DOGS!
These two are so smart and funny we can't get enough of them.

Some pictures















Thanks and good night! Stay warm


happy birthday dad jan 10

I think this belongs on my crazy lady page, but fuk it-here it is.

Today is my dad's birthday; 1/2/31-1/11/2001. We don't really acknowledge those dates formally; we talk about him all the time, and when I am with my mother I always feel him there, whether I realize at the time or not.

I found myself in Borders today buying a book to read on the plane (going to visit the snowbirds soon ) and my eye fell on a book tossed casually on a table-who knows where it actually belonged.

I picked it up and started reading it, and I became so engrossed that I sat down in the nearest chair and paged through the whole thing. It was written in a very chatty style, as a FAQ to a spirit medium, and was very easy to read. The woman explained some of the basics of her gift and the information about death and crossing over she's gained over her life of communicating with the dead.

Some people (including my husband) are very skeptical about such things; you may be a skeptic yourself! As for me, well I've always been a bit apathetic and on-the-fence about the whole idea, but the older I get the more I believe that such things could exist.

Some of the stories in the book made me cry; I hid behind my glasses but there were tears coming down my face. My dad was in my head or beside me the whole time, and I felt his presence acutely (wrong word maybe?)

It wasn't until I put down the book, paid for my purchase, and drove away that I remembered something interesting-my dad's birthday! You may think less of me for forgetting, but I do think of him all the time, so another day was nothing new. But my mind was on birthdays, cause my nephew's birthday is Monday and I had no gift or card! Hopefully an I tunes gift card will soften the blow of a late birthday card.

(Just an aside here-I know I don't need to explain but I find it significant somehow. All three of my brother's kids were born only a day or two away from other birthdays in the immediate family. The youngest was born only two days after my father's bday, my niece three days before mine, and my oldest nephew only one day after my husbands'.)

The book mentioned coincidences and how they don't exist-every coincidence happens for a reason, of course. How did I see that book? I didn't know it existed until I saw it thrown on the table; I never would have looked for it. This medium would say that my father put it there as a sign for me today; a way of letting me know a number of things.

So I am here to acknowledge his birthday and his visit-happy birthday dad! I love you and miss you!

Some pictures













Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of the weekend!


Veterans Day photoblog Nov 09

Yes this is a repost of a tribute I put together a couple years ago. The older I get the more I understand many things about my childhood. Not just secret things that I don't talk about here, but the assumptions and idiocy I was raised to believe as the truth. In the text below I sugarcoat the fact that the veterans in our family were not honored for their service-my parents never really spoke of them as heroes or at all-such a disservice to them and their sacrifice!

I was born and raised in the Vietnam war era, and that was the only war or soldiers my parents ever talked about. The war was wrong, our soldiers worthy only of pity, our leaders were evil, our country was always wrong (at least since the days of the sainted Roosevelt!) I write today as an adult with eyes wide open, finally SEEING my world as it really is, finally through the long process of ridding myself of all those liberal ideas I was raised to believe (but could never quite sign off on). So here is my Veterans Day tribute



Remember our Veterans today!
I never heard much growing up about my relatives' service in the US military-it wasn't a secret, but somehow for various reasons that I won't go into here, we didn't talk much about these brave men, our blood relatives, who risked their lives for our freedom.
It's a little embarrassing that I don't know more about these men, but I'm not going to let that stop me from paying tribute to them here.
My father was a genealogy buff and in his later years, the collector of old photo albums and conversations on tape with some of his many close relatives. I have inherited all this and have not done much with it as of yet-another embarrassment-sorry dad.
At least I have pictures from my father's side. On my mother's side I have nothing but some stories my mother heard when she was young. Sometimes these stories will just pop out of her without warning, and I always want to take some notes so I remember more, but instead just listen. I hope I can convince her to write it all down, so her grandchildren know a little bit about that part of their heritage.
Geez, I wasn't going to get into all this family shit....
So-the rest of this blog will honor all of my relatives (that I know of) who served their country.
My father's mother was one of ten children, and all six of the boys served in WWII in one capacity or another; exactly how I'm not sure, but here's a page from my great-grandfather Arthur Jacobs' album

and the back of the photo, with my dad's notes at the bottom. Top row-Earl, Arthur, Kenneth, second row Mel, Arthur Sr, and Raymond, and Paul seated on the floor.

The next shot is my dad with his uncle Mel-who was in the Navy, obviously.

The information on my mother's side is even sketchier, but I do know that her father, Abraham Mankoff, came to the US as a teenager sometime in the 1910s and enlisted in the army. He had some experience with horses as a boy in Latvia, so he took care of calvary horses somewhere in the desert southwest.
My mother was the youngest of three children; her brother-in-law Morris Rose served in WWII in the Pacific under Pershing for four years. Her brother Lawrence Mankoff didn't come of age until the last year of the war, but he served in Japan in the aftermath of the war (as far as I know).
I'd also like to pay tribute to my father-in-law, John Rozsa,

seen on the right with his business partner of many years. John was born in 1915, so he was a little older and working as a machinist (the trade of his father before him) when the war broke out. Someone looked at his credentials and pulled him out of the line-he spent the war serving his country working on the Manhattan Project in Oak Ridge, Tennessee.
Thanks for giving me the opportunity to put this tribute together. I'm so proud of all the brave men and women who serve our country, past, present, and future, and proud to remember my ancestors who played a small part in that noble fight.
Thank you
Arthur, Earl, Melvin, Raymond, Kenneth and Paul Jacobs.
Abraham and Lawrence Mankoff.
Morris Rose.
John Rozsa.